ladies :5 Reasons NOT To Take Your Ex Back

I think everyone (including myself) has experienced a time when they considered getting back with their ex. The question is.... are you doing it for the RIGHT reasons?

Take a look at the 5 reasons NOT to take your ex back. If 1-5 doesn't apply to you... congratulations, maybe you'll have better luck the second time around. However, if one, some or all of the 1-5 list applies to you... you might wanna reconsider if reuniting is worth the trouble.

1. There is no Change:

The things that bothered you about him/her still exist. When you break up with someone, it's for a reason... If they are the same person they were back when you broke up the first time, what's the use? why would you want to waste more valuable time getting back with them? There's a sea full of NEW fish waiting to be caught.

2. No remorse:

They show no remorse for whatever it is they may have done to hurt you. It's as if they are saying "get over it already". Thats never good. If a person truly loves you, the last thing they want is for you to be hurting over something that they did.

3. You are ashamed to admit to family & friends you're back together:

If you decide to get back with your ex, it's really nobody's business, however, if you are feeling ashamed of your own decision... maybe it's because even YOU know this person is no good and you're making a mistake by reuniting with them.

4. You don't want to be alone:

Getting back with a ex for all the wrong reasons can be a disaster. There's a difference in being with someone because you know deep down they are a GOOD person who adds value to your life verses getting back with them because you are needy and don't want to be alone.

5. The bad out weighs the good:

When the bad out weighs the good.... RUN RUN RUN!! If you think you truly love this person, try making a pros and cons list. If this person is really good for you, the pros should easily out weigh the cons. If you have to reck your brain to come up with good things to list about them (things that don't include sex or looks).... let it go!!